SOUL WEALTH CHRONICLES — ISSUE 47
THE RISE OF MY SELF-WORTH
“Once I stopped trying to prove I was worthy,
my entire life began to shift.”
The Real Shift: I Stopped Chasing Proving Energy
There is a version of me who used to earn love,
negotiate value,
wait for permission,
be grateful for crumbs.
She didn’t lack strength.
She simply believed she needed approval to exist.
Today… I don’t chase worth anymore.
I live from it.
Self-worth is not loud. It doesn’t argue.
It doesn’t demand.
It does not beg.
Self-worth chooses—
where to invest,
where to walk away,
and where to allow softness without fear.
Something I’m Learning
It’s possible to feel lonely and still be at peace.
It’s possible to be tired and still be powerful.
It’s possible to not have it all figured out
and still know everything in me is valuable.
Worth is not earned. It is realized.
The Quiet Upgrade
When self-worth arrives:
You no longer audition for love
You speak with fewer words
You don’t chase explanations
You belong to your body again
Your standards become your frequency
Your future starts collaborating with you
This is not attitude. It’s alignment.
Not push….but permission.
💡 A Question for You
If I truly believed I was worthy,
what would I stop settling for?
And deeper still,
what would I finally allow myself to receive?
Let the answer come slowly.
It’s already in your bones.
Affirmation to Anchor This Issue
I release the version of me who tried to be enough.
I already am.
My life will now rise to meet it.
©️2025 Soul Wealth Rebirth. All rights reserved.
With grace,
Natalie B.
I resonate with what you are learning. It is possible to feel worthy, while grappling with other feelings. Thank you, Natalie, for shining your light, your wisdom.✨✨✨✨✨
Whew... I don't know if you have time for me to go into everything, but to answer your questions.
What would I stop settling for?
To simplify it, I would stop settling for people who are unwilling to at least match what I give, invest, sacrifice, effort, however you want to put it. People who take exceedingly more than they give, that's in any type of relationship, whether business, family, friends, church, etc.
What would I finally allow myself to receive?
Well I would have to recondition myself for this, and it would take time, but what I would allow myself to do more than receive is trusting people or trusting their word. I'm not sure if that's really answering "allow myself to receive", but I guess my self-worth has fully arrived.
Now another part of your article that resonated is "The Quiet Upgrade" section. I guess I arrived at a space in my life where I no longer chase explanations. I observe behaviors, patterns and listen to what you say. I use to "audition for love", but don't really care so much anymore. Perhaps one day, but now I pay attention more to character, and what they do more than what they say.
Alright, let me just stop here. See Natalie you've got to not ask such good question. lol
I apologize for my lengthy response, but I do read what you write.